Matched before they met
Alex came to Shanghai the way most first-time visitors do — curious about the real China and carrying a list of questions about its culture, politics, and companies. Goji matched him with Jony Z.: a Yangpu native, USC-trained, teaching at an international school — sourced, like everyone in the pilot, through second-degree connections of the founding team.
Before anything was confirmed, the two had a mandatory video intro call. Alex's verdict afterward captured exactly what it was for: “the video chat was formal — but in person was natural.” The worry about meeting a stranger had been spent before the evening began.
Wujiaochang, a Ningbo dinner, and a 9:30 PM detour
They met at 5:30 PM. The metro route across town would have eaten an hour, so Jony made a host's call and drove — the first small lesson of the night: a guide who carries the logistics keeps the evening's energy for the conversation.
In Wujiaochang, Jony unpacked the district's history — a hub laid out under the Nationalist government's plan for a greater Shanghai — before dinner at a Ningbo restaurant, where sticky-rice buns and home-style dishes landed better than any landmark. Over the table, the conversation ran wherever it wanted: Nezha 2, celebrity culture, bilingual slang, Minecraft, Andrew Tate, and how young people in Chinese and American cities think more alike than either side expects.
Then, past 9 PM, an unplanned finale: a swing by the ByteDance campus near Jiangwan Stadium. The lights were still on across the buildings. Alex had read about “996”; standing in front of it made it real. It became his favorite stop of the night — proof that people are most curious about the version of their own world that exists somewhere else.